Why Do Things Feel So Difficult?

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How Taichi Helps Us Dissolve the “Hardness” in Body and Mind

Q: Why does everything feel difficult lately? Even small tasks feel heavy, and I get tired or anxious easily.

When a person’s qi movement (internal vitality) is weak, every small task appears like a mountain.
When one’s qi is full and stable, even difficult things can be handled step by steady step.

So what you need to solve is not the fear of difficulty itself, but to let your qi first settle, stabilize, and replenish.

When the mind is unsettled, the steps become unsteady.
When qi does not return inward, the whole person feels hollow.
When qi scatters outward and the mind hangs in mid-air, nothing can truly land.


Q: So if I just stay calm and avoid internal friction, will everything get better?

You’re right that “not draining and not stagnating” is an ideal state.
But here’s the key:

This state is not created by thinking.
It is a real ability.

Without developing this ability:

  • The more you try not to drain yourself, the more you drain.
  • The more you try to stay calm, the more tense you become.

So don’t make “staying calm” the goal.
Make building the ability the goal.

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Q: What ability does Taichi actually train?

At its core, Taichi trains one thing:

The ability for the whole body to remain unobstructed, with qi circulating everywhere.

This is not a concept—it is the essence of Taichi skill.

Without this ability:

  • The mind becomes unstable
  • The person becomes “floaty”
  • Attention scatters outward
  • Internal friction increases endlessly

Your current state is a classic pattern of insufficient heart-qi and qi failing to return inward.


Q: I understand the principles, but I still don’t feel motivated to practice. Why?

This is the most common blockade in Taichi learning:

You understand the theory,
but the body and mind don’t yet have the strength to take the first step.

Not because you aren’t trying, but because:

  • No matter how clearly I explain, it still feels too abstract
  • You’ve heard the principles, but your body has no real experience yet
  • Without experience → no interest
  • Without interest → no motivation

Taichi is originally designed as the most gentle and wise practice
for people whose energy is low and whose system feels weak.

Once someone truly gets the taste of it, they become immersed—almost infatuated.


Q: Then why haven’t I built that interest yet?

Because you’re fighting with Taichi.

You assume Taichi is:

  • Mysterious
  • Complicated
  • Full of requirements

But Taichi is the opposite:

The less you intervene, the better.
The more effortless, the better.
The more natural, the better.

Taichi helps you:

  • Notice your tension
  • See your awkwardness
  • Sense your unnecessary effort
  • Dissolve these interferences
  • Return to your natural state

But most people begin by trying to “do it right,”
and the harder they try, the more tense, tired, and distant from Taichi they become.


Q: How does Taichi help me dissolve fear, anxiety, and internal friction?

Taichi training is simple and profound:

When you float, we draw inward.
When you scatter, we gather again.

Floating and scattering are not mistakes—they are the training material.

You let them appear,
then bring them back.
They appear again,
you bring them back again.

It’s like playing a game with your own habitual patterns.
These patterns are your “little opponents.”

You let them show up,
catch them,
and release them again.

Over time—
nothing chaotic and nothing stagnant can control you anymore.

This is real skill:
both enjoyable and effective.


Q: So how do I begin?

Very simple:

Stop overthinking.
Learn a few basic movements first.

Within the movement, notice:

  • Where is awkward?
  • Where is tight?
  • Where is draining?
  • Where is floating?
  • Where releases?
  • Where settles?

You “play chess” with your own weakness and confusion inside the movement.
You dissolve internal friction within the movement.
You build stable heart-qi within the movement.

This is far more effective than trying to “think clearly.”

The more you practice, the deeper, steadier, and lighter you become.

Eventually you will realize:

Fear of difficulty is not the real problem.
Lack of internal power is the real problem.
And Taichi is exactly the art that replenishes that power.

To practice is to return to health, ease, and your natural self.

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